Wednesday, February 22, 2012
I went Shopping yesterday at a private sale and bought some stuff back
next I saw booth selling nail polish and I bought some back tooooooo
after that I bought contact lens as mine have expired which is why I seldom wear contact lens recently
Then I went bugis street for a walk and got 1 dress
(which I got cheated cux the auntie say can fit me but when i reach home it was too big for me n the tag says "L" =.= )
got this freebies so cute!!
And this are my loots (without the dress)
gonna have to use up my skincare products dilligently =DDDD
Saturday, February 18, 2012
Back with another post... just wondering about a few things recently... yes... about friendship again
below are a few options, have you encountered these before?
a) plenty of friends but these are friends who are not the kind you feel close to your heart. are you really happy? or your happiness stem from playing everyday?
b) friends you have meetups with every week but you realised that there is nothing much to talk about
c) friends who are aboveboard with the things they do but people don't really like them because people refused to face up to harsh fact, if can hide just hide
d) friends who tells u one thing but do another
there are still endless of questions/options but.....
Let me describe my view/opinions of friendships.
i prefer friendships to be aboveboard with no secrets, in other words I rather get hit with the truth than to be faced with lies.
I'm straightforward with my emotions because I don't like to beat around the bush and 2nd pt: some people don't learn their mistakes unless you let them know (Some people don't learn even after letting them know)
I have patience for everybody even those I don't really have a liking to but I'll help if it within my means (unless you step on my tail repeatedly and tries to sabotage me)
I don't like hypocrites who tell me stuff about others but says another things behind my back
I agree that everyone including myself are judgemental at times and sometimes it really depends on who is the person we are judging
I prefer debate with people who thinks, than SENSELESS arguement from people with no logical thinking or no common sense
Why am I saying all these, recently I encountered certain friendships which led me to think..
Below are FICTIONAL scenarios derived from my real life experience
Scenario A:
Person X: wah that person Z is a slacker, rely on others to wipe her ass clean clean, didn't know she like that....etc
Person Y: really ar? that not very nice why she like that de?
Next day
Person Z: Am I a bad friend.... etc blah blah blah
Person X: no la you are a very nice friend, don't worry you did a lot for us etc etc etc...
Person Z: You are the only one who thinks bad about me, this is only your one-sided thinking, you are an ass**** etc etc
Person Y (thinking: huh? but person X was the one who told me things about you)
Scenario B
Person D: Help me with my work leh I don't really understand
Person E: Ok but I need to finish my work first
Person D: you help me with my work den i go home and help you find info for your work
Person E (thinking: that time you say you help me but also didn't) : ok can
*reach home*
Person D: oh i wrote .... for my work etc etc etc
Person E: huh I don't understand... etc etc
Person D: *repeats*
Person E: *casually* I tot you want to help me find info? haha
Person D: you need to do yourself then you will learn etc etc etc
Friends indeed. Have this feeling of being cheated recently...
Questions about yourself shouldn't be asked because only real friends tell you the truth in order for you to learn
How about those who tell you the nice things for you to feel good about yourself? you wait and see the outcomes for yourself
Just wondering should I change myself ? like maybe adopt the approach my friends use, like being nice with everybody but no sincerity felt then at least there are friends who call you out to play but on the other hand who is going to be there for me when I need a listening ear? then again, there are people who wants others to listen to their problems but refused to listen to others' problems.....
Life is a dilemma at times....
below are a few options, have you encountered these before?
a) plenty of friends but these are friends who are not the kind you feel close to your heart. are you really happy? or your happiness stem from playing everyday?
b) friends you have meetups with every week but you realised that there is nothing much to talk about
c) friends who are aboveboard with the things they do but people don't really like them because people refused to face up to harsh fact, if can hide just hide
d) friends who tells u one thing but do another
there are still endless of questions/options but.....
Let me describe my view/opinions of friendships.
i prefer friendships to be aboveboard with no secrets, in other words I rather get hit with the truth than to be faced with lies.
I'm straightforward with my emotions because I don't like to beat around the bush and 2nd pt: some people don't learn their mistakes unless you let them know (Some people don't learn even after letting them know)
I have patience for everybody even those I don't really have a liking to but I'll help if it within my means (unless you step on my tail repeatedly and tries to sabotage me)
I don't like hypocrites who tell me stuff about others but says another things behind my back
I agree that everyone including myself are judgemental at times and sometimes it really depends on who is the person we are judging
I prefer debate with people who thinks, than SENSELESS arguement from people with no logical thinking or no common sense
Why am I saying all these, recently I encountered certain friendships which led me to think..
Below are FICTIONAL scenarios derived from my real life experience
Scenario A:
Person X: wah that person Z is a slacker, rely on others to wipe her ass clean clean, didn't know she like that....etc
Person Y: really ar? that not very nice why she like that de?
Next day
Person Z: Am I a bad friend.... etc blah blah blah
Person X: no la you are a very nice friend, don't worry you did a lot for us etc etc etc...
Person Z: You are the only one who thinks bad about me, this is only your one-sided thinking, you are an ass**** etc etc
Person Y (thinking: huh? but person X was the one who told me things about you)
Scenario B
Person D: Help me with my work leh I don't really understand
Person E: Ok but I need to finish my work first
Person D: you help me with my work den i go home and help you find info for your work
Person E (thinking: that time you say you help me but also didn't) : ok can
*reach home*
Person D: oh i wrote .... for my work etc etc etc
Person E: huh I don't understand... etc etc
Person D: *repeats*
Person E: *casually* I tot you want to help me find info? haha
Person D: you need to do yourself then you will learn etc etc etc
Friends indeed. Have this feeling of being cheated recently...
Questions about yourself shouldn't be asked because only real friends tell you the truth in order for you to learn
How about those who tell you the nice things for you to feel good about yourself? you wait and see the outcomes for yourself
Just wondering should I change myself ? like maybe adopt the approach my friends use, like being nice with everybody but no sincerity felt then at least there are friends who call you out to play but on the other hand who is going to be there for me when I need a listening ear? then again, there are people who wants others to listen to their problems but refused to listen to others' problems.....
Life is a dilemma at times....
Sunday, January 29, 2012
Hi I'm back after so long!! I 'm unhappy about this current school term so I hope this term will pass quickly and there will be more joyful things for me to be happy about.
Enough about school. Let me share some of my happier days.
I was out with Fishie-chan for shopping one day and I didn't felt so happy before maybe because Fishie was ok with spending so much once in a while but my other friends want to go shopping but don't want to spend a single cent which is quite "tiring" actually
Our loots!! Weak quality paper bag which snap while we were carrying it
$100 worth of stuff from Etude house (most of it belong to fishie)
I bought yummy korean snacks from FEP and bought these
Yummy topoki (that's how it was being spelt on the packaging)
Bought more snacks but didnt take pictures of it
Can't wait to go back there haha =)
My loots! new bag and shoes for school
SHINee Diary won at Etude House
Beard Papa cream puff
Thinking of Taka Basement 1 reminds me of Ajisen which I have not visited at all for months!!!
on one of the school days, I was out with my classmates for some Jap food for lunch
Cadbury given by my relatives
Lunch Buffet with my relatives at Buffet Town!!
Took some pictures during CNY
None of myself because was busy eating my Kai Xin Guo
back to school. I sincerely hope there will be people who stop giving me trouble by being immature and narrow-minded
Tata guys I will try to bring more happiness to my blog =D
Wednesday, January 04, 2012
Hows your 2012 so far guys?
hmm I went out a couple of times with my friends and I went JB on the last day of 2011!!!
I went visiting about 3- 4 shopping malls in JB, tebrau being the last shopping mall before heading to somewhere call sentosa smtk for dinner and after that we went looking for Luk-Luk - home Sweet home!!
how 's my day recently?
Wasn't feeling well for the whole of holidays, have been falling sick on and off. Not sure whether is it because I have not fully recovered when I fall sick last November. This time, it hit me again but much worst with all the vomiting, diahrrea and fever coming together. Hard to fall asleep too because I was aching all over. Visited the doc who said that I have a weaker stomach than others so I cant eat too much or too full. Have to eat light food for the whole day.. Guess I have to stick to this diet for a while
Bye guys Have a good start to 2012!
hmm I went out a couple of times with my friends and I went JB on the last day of 2011!!!
I went visiting about 3- 4 shopping malls in JB, tebrau being the last shopping mall before heading to somewhere call sentosa smtk for dinner and after that we went looking for Luk-Luk - home Sweet home!!
how 's my day recently?
Wasn't feeling well for the whole of holidays, have been falling sick on and off. Not sure whether is it because I have not fully recovered when I fall sick last November. This time, it hit me again but much worst with all the vomiting, diahrrea and fever coming together. Hard to fall asleep too because I was aching all over. Visited the doc who said that I have a weaker stomach than others so I cant eat too much or too full. Have to eat light food for the whole day.. Guess I have to stick to this diet for a while
Bye guys Have a good start to 2012!
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Hmmm, my schedule is slightly packed this weekkkk
Went out with Fishie and Dan for a night movie, New Year Eve its a really nice show go and watch!!
Fishie wants to go shoppping!!! yipppeeee
Went out with G, V and P for korean Buffet!! The taste is still lingering in my mouth =DDD I can't wait to have korean buffet again. As usual we were all late haha luckily we made it in time for the lunch buffet
Gonna see G and P tomorrow at NGEE ANN POLYYYYY we have been planning this for ages but couldn't find the time. Kaki fuyong?, vegetarian food, chicken rice, black peppper sandwich, campus delliiii and MORE which one should I eat? and recently, I heard that pepper lunch and many other new stalls have been set up under the new block (which replaces our beloved Canteen 1 using our money =.=)
Can't for tomorrow to come.. have to start running home to lose weight haha
Xmas gathering this friday and movie dates with Fishie n Dan again sooooon!!!
Went out with Fishie and Dan for a night movie, New Year Eve its a really nice show go and watch!!
Fishie wants to go shoppping!!! yipppeeee
Went out with G, V and P for korean Buffet!! The taste is still lingering in my mouth =DDD I can't wait to have korean buffet again. As usual we were all late haha luckily we made it in time for the lunch buffet
Gonna see G and P tomorrow at NGEE ANN POLYYYYY we have been planning this for ages but couldn't find the time. Kaki fuyong?, vegetarian food, chicken rice, black peppper sandwich, campus delliiii and MORE which one should I eat? and recently, I heard that pepper lunch and many other new stalls have been set up under the new block (which replaces our beloved Canteen 1 using our money =.=)
Can't for tomorrow to come.. have to start running home to lose weight haha
Xmas gathering this friday and movie dates with Fishie n Dan again sooooon!!!
Saturday, December 17, 2011
Haven been updating this space recently due to exams and after exams??
Books, anime, dramas occupy my time!!! Some updates on my life! =D
from my cousin wedding!
Love her wedding dresses, shorts ones, long ones, its all stunning and beautiful
Stay blissful always Cousin! =D
This cute adorable mask is brought back from Korea by my cousin who went there for a honeymoon
I couldn't bear to use it
Sis went on a HK trip and just got back yesterday night
(She is leaving again tomorrow for a Taiwan trip =.= so rich)
Biscuits in egg tart flavours, something new which I have not tried before
Sis visited HK disneyland and bought gifts for my niece and nephew
aww the plastic bag is soo adorable
why don't they put stitch or chip 'n' dale on it?
I love Lao Po Bing!
Plain ones are my favourite!!
I will be back to update soon =D
(if I am able to get my eyes off laptop and go out with my friends)
Have MERRY MEERY XMAS!!
Its the time of the year again!! =D
Saturday, November 26, 2011
Experience a lot of happy moments for the past weeks, weddings and birthday parties.
All equate to the next stage of life.
The most recent wedding I attended was the wedding of one of my cousins from my dad side. when I was younger, I thought nothing about weddings, I thought I was only there to eat but as I grow older I try my very best to control my tears from falling. To me, Marriage is not only about celebrating the union of 2 people but the union of 2 families and creating one big union. Its about pushing on through life with an additional hand in yours. Its about caring for more people to make your world a better place to live in. Its about everything that affects your world.
The part where I feel really sad?
Was when the father gave away his little girl.
And when he believe the hands of another man will continue to bring happiness to his little girl.
When you are born, your little hands are held by your parents and those who loves you to walk you through the early stages of your life, to teach, guide and shelter you well. When you enter the next stage of your life, it brings them heartache to let you continue on your life without their shelter and not knowing how well will you be living in future..... I can't go on... shall stop here
next up Birthday parties is one of the ways to catch up with old friends
All equate to the next stage of life.
The most recent wedding I attended was the wedding of one of my cousins from my dad side. when I was younger, I thought nothing about weddings, I thought I was only there to eat but as I grow older I try my very best to control my tears from falling. To me, Marriage is not only about celebrating the union of 2 people but the union of 2 families and creating one big union. Its about pushing on through life with an additional hand in yours. Its about caring for more people to make your world a better place to live in. Its about everything that affects your world.
The part where I feel really sad?
Was when the father gave away his little girl.
And when he believe the hands of another man will continue to bring happiness to his little girl.
When you are born, your little hands are held by your parents and those who loves you to walk you through the early stages of your life, to teach, guide and shelter you well. When you enter the next stage of your life, it brings them heartache to let you continue on your life without their shelter and not knowing how well will you be living in future..... I can't go on... shall stop here
next up Birthday parties is one of the ways to catch up with old friends
I hope you guys are doing well!!! =D
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Visited Popular bookfest with my cousin the other day!!
Wanted to lay my hands on every single book im interested in but my pocket has a big hole waiting to be coverd up
Cute post-it =D
30 ink pens for $3.90
I love the ink pens but I don't need 30 pens
they don't sell it one by one
only in boxes of 30 =(
Highlighters and clips!
Everything I bought was relatively cheap until I bought these two books
its on sale/promotion therefore I had to get two instead of one
anybody wants to try out my baking skills??
I promise you won't need to visit the doc haha =p
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Sunday, November 20, 2011
Cheryl's bday party and I had a good time there =D
Waiting for these 2 swines hahah
This teaches you how to make your face smaller haha!!
My clique!
They can invent a game anywhere anytime haha
Siqiao is concentrating on the game
It has been ages since I last saw him!!!
My fellow libran hahah
Lets do the same pose =)
I love the balloons 1
I love the balloons 2
I love the balloons 3
I love the balloons 4
I still love the balloons!! (5) hahha!! =D
The balloons are in Jovy's hand now haha =p
Yuann
2 guys trying to act cool hahha
My friends are amazing
they can come up with any games and entertain themselves
anytime anyplace anywhere with anything hahahhaha =p
The End!
Looking forward to seeing my friends again !!
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